Has marriage passed you by?  Do the wedding bells ring ding dong, ding dong for someone else, but not for you?

We have been recently dancing Argentine Tango to a Spanish song where the singer hears church bells in the distance and wonders why he doesn’t hear his own wedding bells. Since I don’t know Spanish, I’m not sure what conclusion the singer comes to and don’t even know the name of the song, but I can feel the singer’s pain.

The singer’s voice is so hauntingly clear and beautiful, so somehow he seems to accept the fact that he doesn’t have any prospects for marriage. Maybe a voice so angelic can only come from a complete and whole person in the inside that maybe doesn’t look so great on the outside. Women might not have been so attracted to him physically and he being a gentle soul never completely revealed himself.

Let the goodness in you be known to others, not in a showy way, but in a natural, unassuming way. Let your inner attractiveness come out so a potential mate can find it. We will all grow old and tired, but only your inner beauty will last. When you grow old with a marriage partner, you’ll want to look into their eyes and see the beauty within.