Some single male friends of mine have probably never married because of some underlying false belief.  Only they know the false belief to which they hold on and most likely will never share, but only occasionally hint at or demonstrate in their lives if someone looked very closely.

A false belief could be something like “women are only after money’ or “a woman would never be interested in me” or “I’m selfish right now. I’m just trying to figuring out what to do with my life right now. If I involve someone else that wouldn’t be fair to them.”

False beliefs are especially difficult to change. Many times a person will hold on to a false belief for many years to their determent. Only after their false belief is brought out into the open and exposed as a lie can a person begin to slowly release it and replace it with the truth.

“I’m not ready to get married.’ That was the excuse inside my head for most of my life. I always felt I was never mature enough to be a good husband and father. I wanted to have a good career and money before getting married.

Well, timing is everything. What happens when you have a good career and money, but can not find a good mate? And what about the years that have gone by that you could have spent enjoying with your mate? They are gone forever.

Truth is who is ever completely ready for marriage? Someone may really like you and she wants to spend the rest of her life with you, but you don’t have the money. She knows that, but trusts you, believes in you, and trusts everything will work out financially over time. In other words, she loves you. Single man, you better think seriously about marrying her.