http://singletango.com/666/dance-argentine-tango/reaching-your-potential-as-a-argentine-tango-leader/ Mon, 17 Aug 2009 05:06:23 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://singletango.com/666/dance-argentine-tango/reaching-your-potential-as-a-argentine-tango-leader/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Helaine Sat, 01 Aug 2009 06:08:50 +0000 http://singletango.com/?p=666#comment-40 About the importance of the pauses: Good; not all guys understand this. Now, what if you stopped thinking of yourself as a "tango leader" for an evening, and you think of yourself first as a Man? (Note the capital 'M'.) Then rather than "let the Woman play and do her adornments", you take advantage of the pause to focus on things like feeling her breathing in your embrace, and seeing if her adornments entice you, and you think of how you are going to respond. I think a man doesn't have to worry about becoming an experienced leader when he starts thinking of a tango as a "3-minute date at kissing distance". ;) Abrazos and good tangos. About the importance of the pauses: Good; not all guys understand this. Now, what if you stopped thinking of yourself as a "tango leader" for an evening, and you think of yourself first as a Man? (Note the capital 'M'.) Then rather than "let the Woman play and do her adornments", you take advantage of the pause to focus on things like feeling her breathing in your embrace, and seeing if her adornments entice you, and you think of how you are going to respond. I think a man doesn't have to worry about becoming an experienced leader when he starts thinking of a tango as a "3-minute date at kissing distance". Abrazos and good tangos.

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